Tuesday 29 December 2009

Have a Peaceful and Predictable 2010!

Hey Robin. Thank you for the birthday wishes. BTW, did you mean every year you aspire to be as mature as me? (Rather than as old as me.)

But you don’t feel like you ever get there. Now that makes more sense!!

Although to state the obvious, we are doing our best to give you every opportunity to catch up!!

Let me fill you in.

But first … the privilege of doing this – taking a year out with your family. I love it.

I’m relieved to say that we’ve all changed. This is getting easier by the day. The boys in particular have changed. Their work attitude has improved 100%, they contribute more positively, travel better and don’t complain. Everything is much smoother. And there is less pressure on Ajay. We’ve stayed ‘off-road’ several times, and have stayed at small villages with no electricity and round mud huts several times. And all the way to the other end of the scale too. 100 pounds for camping per night…!

I still am not sure if I would actually recommend a trip like this … between you, me and the gate post. We seem to sail perilously close to the wind maybe a little too often, which I don’t always enjoy at the time.

Today Ajay took Portia and Eden just 200m off the lip of the Victoria Falls, along the edge of the weir. I couldn’t look, let alone film it! Although, as Ajay will be quick to tell you, it wasn’t that dangerous.

Our new car is going nicely, on the whole. We came up through Botswana over Christmas.

I feel as if we have one ‘drama’ after another. We did some ‘wild’ camping just before Christmas, the first we’d done in Namibia, only to find out our car wouldn’t start the next morning. We were 20 miles walk from the previous village we’d passed. And it was hot, hot. For better or worse the camera crew were with us! So we could jump start the car. Ajay eventually found out we have a 24v starter motor and so couldn’t steal all the charge for the freezer from the 2nd battery. Then a few days ago the roads were so bumpy. We assume the river crossings effected the breaking system on the trailer, so with all the sand and potholes we had to go through, the weight of the trailer kept bumping into the tail of the car bring the tow bar extension down by an angle of 30 degrees. We limped on to the next major town, a day’s travel. Ajay asked a group of guys, who took us into the local township (all the time assessing how safe this tip was.) There Ajay found help and contacts to fix it!

The first river crossing was in the middle of the Okavango Delta. We were in the middle of nowhere again, relying on the laptop and using Tracks for Africa. It’s amazing how reliable we can navigate with it. (Except the laptop took a break for no known reason. I sympathise entirely and wish I could take a 3 or 4 day break too. Just one!) Now when you cross a river – you are meant to get out and check the depth. We had just finished watching a group of 14 elephants and their babies, and also a rather frisky hippo which I was a tad weary of. When you know there are crocs and hippos in the nearby lakes, what would you do? Anyway, we had a quick look at the depth of this river and preferred side to go. But I tell you, as we went through the river, we had the fright of our lives when the river bed suddenly dropped and the water came up to the windscreen, twice in the same crossing. We’ve got stuck a few times too, but not seriously … yet, although much to the amusements of some locals today! Since then we’ve check the rivers more thoroughly and know that the car can comfortably go through a metre deep … as long as the bottom is solid! There is supposed to be more rain as we go further north and as we get into January. Yet despite all this we are seriously looking at extending the trip to Christmas next year.

Maturity. Now there’s an ambiguous quality!!!

 

Sunday 13 December 2009

Thank You!

With some sense of alarm, we’ve noticed the Christmas season marching stoically on without us – how rude! So in some vague attempt to catch up, (at least that’s a familiar feeling for the time of year!) our thoughts turning towards our many good friends around the world that we’re missing, especially our HK friends, and the special nostalgic HK Christmas. Oh well – we have to console ourselves with the truth that our lives are indeed richer for knowing so many of you, for that gift of sharing your friendships and family times with us. Thank you so much for all the beautiful, ordinary, extraordinary people in our lives.


"Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend. Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow." Melody Beattie

 

 

Saturday 12 December 2009

Happy Christmas!

Just leaving Windhoek (forever!) on Monday 14th. Rushing up to the Victoria Falls and Lusaka, next stop. It's our one Christmas Party tomorrow with the kids at BNC! We're face painting for our small contribution. (I'm paying Asher Eden and Portia to help me!!!)
By the way - I notice Christmas marching on stoically without us everywhere else in the world! So it's with a tinge of sadness that I remember all our wonderful Hong Kong Christmas times, and our lovely friends there. But happy knowing we are all the richer for having known so many quality people! :-)
And of course - Happy Christmas to my lovely supportive family. You're the best - and our dear Colchester friends. Now I've dug a hole for myself - for all our other family and friends across the world. A love-blanket to you all!
The internet cafe is hassling me ... so I'll stop before the email is wiped out, which wouldn't be the first time.


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Monday 7 December 2009

Just a quick note!

We seem to have utmost difficulty in leaving – wherever we find ourselves to be! Now we are back in Windhoek, Namibia – again waiting for car paper work, and also the boxes from HK. However – next week we’ll be on the road again – and having to make up some serious time and get some miles behind us. But we’ve just had a wonderful 10 days with a French family who have done a similar trip in reverse. Their kids were 11,10 and 6 – and after some initial language barrier, our kids fitted perfectly together. Unfortunately their English benefited a lot more than our French did. They were just a lovely ordinary family – running their lives in a very similar way to us. The time turned out to be a holiday for both families.

We saw some beautiful sand dunes and had lots of fun climbing up them and sand boarding down them. Well the kids and Ajay – for me it was too fast! And amazing animals in Etosha – but I will include a few picture next time. Now I have to run!

 

 

Quick Note!

We are back in Windhoek after spending a fabulous 10 days with a lovely French family (11, 10 and 6 yr old kids) who have done the same journey, but from top to bottom. They will go onto South America. It was a great break for all of us - and gave me faith again in what's achievable! We are now back in Windhoek, awaiting paper work for the car - and trying hard to release the boxes sent from Relocasia with all the donated goods in. Not as easy as it may sound! Film crew joining us towards the end of this week again as we head up on the journey. We need to get some serious number of miles behind us to get back onto schedule. Finally, I hear myself say! The sand dunes and Etosha nature reserve were beautiful - but I'll try and enclose a few pictures in a day or two.
The time at the internet cafe is closing down on me - I couldn't get to send my lovely list of emails. Watch your in-box in the next day or two - I'll have to get my technological husband on the job, along with every other department that he has to handle!


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